Who are we?
A space where women reclaim their confidence, strength, and clarity after navigating the complexities of relationships, heartbreak, and personal growth.
We’re rewriting the narrative for The Relationship Guide. Whether you’re healing from a breakup, navigating post-divorce life, or working to strengthen your relationships, you’re not alone—this is your place to reset, rebuild, and thrive.
Born from real-life experiences of resilience, transformation, and self-discovery, this isn’t about glossy perfection or unattainable ideals—it’s about real conversations, real support, and real change. Here, you’ll find expert relationship guidance, empowering stories, and a community of women who get it.
Life’s toughest challenges don’t define us—they refine us. If you’re ready to move forward with confidence and turn uncertainty into empowerment, this space is for you.
You’re not clueless—you’re courageous. Join us and step into your next chapter with clarity, confidence, and community.



Before: The “Clueless Club” Label
Once divorced in name but not financially, I found myself in a meeting with an employment specialist who made a sweeping assumption about my life. She incorrectly believed that, because I hadn’t worked in years, I must have been spending my days leisurely lunching with friends. Then, with a dismissive laugh, she called me part of “The Clueless Club.”
That phrase stuck with me. But here’s the truth: I wasn’t a lady who lunched—I was a mother raising three young children, navigating the complexities of a heavily contested divorce and the subsequent post-divorce survival, and fighting for financial independence. I wasn’t clueless. I was in survival mode.
The Journey to After: Reclaiming Myself
For seven years, I fought through the family court system, determined to gain the financial freedom I deserved. It was a long, exhausting battle, but I learned how to stand my ground, navigate legal complexities, and advocate for myself in a system that often works against women in my position. My case was even published in the UK —anonymously, but with lessons that can help others in similar situations.
Now, my life looks very different. I’ve flipped the narrative. I’ve built something new, something powerful—and far from clueless.
Through The Relationship Guide, I’ll be sharing my story, my strategies, and my insights to help other women find their voice, their power, and their own path to freedom. Whether you’re navigating divorce, reclaiming financial independence, or simply looking for real, honest support, this space is for you.
If you’re ready to take control of your future, welcome to this club. Let’s do this together.